What to say in a birthday message besides happy birthday.

Where you were the day you met, and what you thought of them in the first five minutes.

Something they did this year that they probably don’t know you noticed.

The most ridiculous thing you’ve done together that you’d happily do again.

Their worst birthday plan ever, and whether they’ve learned anything since.

Another year of putting up with me. Thank you.

The day they were born, told from your side: the weather, the waiting, the first time you held them.

Something about who they are now that you couldn’t have guessed when they were little.

The toddler habit they’d rather you never mention. Mention it, briefly.

The present they begged for every single year as a kid, and whether you ever gave in.

Proud of you. That’s the whole message.

One thing from growing up in the same house that only the two of you remember.

The nice thing you’d never say to their face, said to their face.

The fight you still say you won. Give your side one more time.

Something you blamed on them as kids that was actually you. Confess now.

Still your favorite sibling. Don’t check with the others.

Something they taught you that you still do their way, like folding a shirt or making tea.

A smell, a sound or a room at their house that will always mean them.

The rule you only got away with breaking at their place.

Their secret for winning at cards, and your plan to finally beat it.

Happy birthday. I’m coming over for cake and a story.