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What to say in a thank-you message to someone who showed up for you.

Name the specific thing they did and what difference it made. Here are 20 ideas for a thank-you video or voice message to a teacher, coach, nurse or neighbor.

From a student or parent (to a teacher)

  • Something they said in class that you still remember, word for word if you can.

    Warm

  • How your child talks about them at home, with one example.

    Warm

  • The excuse you gave them that they definitely saw through.

    Funny

  • Something from their class you now know more about than your parents do.

    Funny

  • Thank you for this year. It mattered.

    Short

From a team (to a coach)

  • The game, race or practice where something finally clicked because of them.

    Warm

  • Something they did for the team that had nothing to do with winning.

    Warm

  • The drill everyone hated that turned out to work.

    Funny

  • The worst weather they made you train in, and whether you’ve forgiven them.

    Funny

  • Thanks, coach. Same time next season?

    Short

From a patient’s family (to a nurse or caregiver)

  • A small thing they did that made a hard day easier, like remembering a name or how someone takes their coffee.

    Warm

  • What your family member said about them after they left the room.

    Warm

  • How things are now, if you want to share it, so they know how the story went on.

    Warm

  • The joke or nickname that got everyone through the long nights.

    Funny

  • You made a hard time easier. Thank you.

    Short

From a neighbor

  • The favor they did that you never properly thanked them for.

    Warm

  • The day you really needed someone, and they just showed up.

    Warm

  • Everything you’ve borrowed from them over the years, including what you still have.

    Funny

  • Their garden, dog or holiday lights, reviewed with full honesty.

    Funny

  • Thanks for always looking out for us.

    Short

Tips for recording.

  1. Name one specific thing they did, since that’s the part people remember.
  2. Say who you are and how you know them in the first few seconds, as they may know a lot of families.
  3. If your voice wobbles, keep going: you don’t need to record it again.

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